Techniques

Sex and the City was a smash hit with women worldwide for its cheeky but accurate portrayal of women’s sexual experience in modern Manhattan. Its success paved the way for other shows, like Desperate Housewives and even Mad Men, to take a more candid approach to the female libido. And yet, as much as this television awakening has helped liberate women and their sexual sense of self, it’s perhaps overemphasized … Read More →

There’s that overused old adage about dressing for the job you want, not the job you have. And while we assume that a janitor dressing like a CEO or an exotic dancer dressing like a Starbucks barista might seem loony, there is something to be said for confidence in presentation. When we dress sexy, we start to feel sexy, and for good reason. 1) We get positive feedback, often directly … Read More →

Meanwhile, back at the ranch, everyone was into orgasmic meditation. I watched a video tonight devoted to the relatively unknown practice of OMing, (pronounced ohm-ing). Don’t know what that is? Well, you’re still not going to know what it is after I’ve told you about it. You really have to see it – so let me try to give you as much of a visual as possible. The physical action … Read More →

For a long time I thought something was wrong with me; no matter how hard I tried (and I tried), I couldn’t quite get there. No matter what I did, or who I was with, I couldn’t orgasm – plain and simple. Being non-orgasmic became the norm for me. Despite this, I still enjoyed sex. It didn’t matter to me that I wasn’t reaching a ‘climax’ per se; without having … Read More →